I get Parenting magazine in the mail every month and typically enjoy the tips, parent stories and product reviews. The Editor's Letter of the July issue prompted this blog post since I strongly disagree with it and feel the need to speak out.
Here is an exerpt from the article More to Love, "Feeling blah about your body? Join the club. I'm waiting for you on the beach chairs and we can clink glasses--cheers! Seriously, happy as most of us are to become moms, it's tough saying so long to our pre-pregnancy shape. Even if you didn't have flat abs before, it's shocking what carrying a person inside you for nine months can do, giving you everything from a sagging belly to a butt that's entered into a merger agreement with the backs of your legs..." She goes on to say, "Being healthy and happy is more important than being slim."
I'm tired of mothers publicly adhering to this resolve. They got pregnant, they gained weight and are now stuck with their "mom" bodies. Being healthy and happy are definitely at the top of my list AS are being strong, energetic and able to take on the physical daily demands that come with being a working mom and wife. Don't get me wrong, it was hard to motivate to get back into shape, especially while getting used to a new schedule and being in a perpetual state of sleep deprivation. No one said it would be easy, but when people read articles like this they are more likely to give up.
Let's set a good example for our kids in a society where one in three children are overweight according to the study titled “F as in Fat: How Obesity Threatens America’s Future 2010,” a dual effort by the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation and Trust For America’s Health.
I say, we need to motivate each other, work together and encourage new mom's (and old ones). Grab a friend on the way to the gym, offer to babysit a few times while she starts a workout program, give positive reinforcements and lets all get back in shape together. How about "more kick a** moms to love"....Strong Moms ROCK!